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2023.06.05 09:43 QueerTheist Seeking advice for how to rebuild a dying church. Wondering how to best support my community, and whether or not I should pursue an m. div.

I'm a young person and a practicing Methodist. I was confirmed at 14 and have been attending regularly for the past few years. Due to unfortunate circumstances, I ended up very far away from the area I grew up in without any connections or much money to speak of. My parents were and are largely not in my life, and I found community in a local church.
It was a transformative experience for me, and made me realize what a church can be. They were going to pride, feeding the homeless, and being in the community. The people there were incredibly kind to me, made sure to incorporate my music into service, and made me feel welcome. After a few months of attending I ended up coming out to the pastor as trans, and he was incredibly supportive. They already knew me as a woman but it was still massive for me, because it meant I didn't have to hide at church for the first time in my life.
Our major problem (like many churches) has been declining membership. Its gotten to the point where there are about 15-20 attendees in a building that can house 140. Our financials have been in the red since 2018, and we have only survived through a major one time contribution in 2020. Our churchgoers are also very elderly, with about 1/3 of our members being over the age of 80.
We aren't going to be here in 3 years. Its killing me. I know steps we can take to turn things around, but I'm terrified that I've come here too late to make a difference. I have lots of ideas though, and a pastor and church council that values my input and is willing to listen.
Here were my ideas:
  1. Continue programs until there is nothing left to fund them
  2. Do unconventional methods of outreach (e.g. hosting communion at local commons or parks during summer months)
  3. Coordinate with other churches in our area to prop up our underfunded food pantry
  4. Being earnest with our community and other nonprofits (being upfront about financial challenges exacerbated by COVID, setting funding goals, showing how money will be allocated, and giving updates on how we are serving the community)
Our pastor has also suggested renting out excess space to other non-profits and not for profits in the area, and allowing use of our commercial kitchen.
I think that these could help a lot, but we are trying to make up a $4000 monthly disparity in earnings/income. If we can stretch 3 years of viability into 10 years it would make a world of difference, and give us the time to rebuild our attendance. But I'm still so worried that I'm not doing enough, or that there isn't anything I *could* do to change this as one person.
What do you think I should be doing? I know that I want to pursue social work, whether that's working for DHS, doing things through this church, or becoming a counselor. Im interested in the history of the church and want to study theology, so I'm thinking that a m. div might be a good thing to pursue. But anything I do is going to have to wait a few years because I'm still trying to get my life started. Even if that wasn't a factor, I feel I can't leave without first doing my best to stabilize this. I'm the only under 45 on the council and the only person with the energy for this kinda stuff.
If I do decide to pursue a joint m. div and degree in social work, I don't know what seminary would be safe for me to attend as a trans woman. In a lot of states it would be a question whether I would even be able to get a prescription filled moving forward. And even if I did become a pastor I'm worried that I would have difficulty finding work. Especially if this church is gone.
This was as much a support thread as an advice thread, my bad. If you've read this far, thank you. I'd appreciate any advice because I'm learning as I go atm.
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2023.06.05 09:35 Rare_Sample8282 Looking to rent

I recently came back from my second day-long trip into the countryside to look at a property, and had the landlord add 50-80% to the listed price of their property onsite ("I could make so much more doing Airbnb"). I'm almost at my wit's end.
If you own a property with a garden in the 2-3 hour band outside of London, and would like a quiet married couple + cat who can comfortably afford the rent, please PM me.
All I want is decent value for money with a straightforward person (and you'd get the same).
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2023.06.05 09:35 kaizye My (25m) gf (22F) broke up with me on our anniversary to go and find herself but we still live together...

First time posting on here so appologies for structuring or lack of context, will do my best to clarify here and if not then in the comments. Strap in as its going to be a long one.
Made an attempt at a TLDR at the bottom.
So yeah this is a hard one to explain because I understand where she's coming from but at the same time feel so hurt that I'm unsure how to properly process this.
Her justification is that she doesn't know who she is or what she wants, she has been doing everything for everyone all her life and doesn't feel like she has ever had a chance to create a sense of self, do things without needing to consider anyone else before her. She did everything for her mum, went into her first relationship, as soon as that ended very badly we met and she jumped straight into our relationship then afterwards our relationship has been mostly about survival and us working out of the financial hole we built together. That's the summary pretty much.
Now for context why what she's saying makes some sense.
We've been together for 3 years, we've lived together for just over 2 of those years (due to her going to university for 1 year). Started off super strong, met on tinder and sparks flew, within first few weeks of dating we made things official and blew up like a firework, honeymoon phase was the most amazing high of my life. Our sex life has always been great.
During first year we had lots of ups and down, specifically during the first half of the year having her ex constantly reaching out to her to make amends (he was emotionally abusive af). We had fights over this as it took allot for her to block him then eventually after he kept using different numbers to contact her I told her to sort it out and she called him and had some closure( from that point onwards their interaction ended).
During the 2nd half of the year she was In university, I would visit her every few weeks and stayed for a while as well but her mental health became really bad and During a Suisquid scare I told her she could move in with me in my apartment i shared with a roomate until she decided what she wanted (she was very emotionally dependant on me for that part of our history), this was during covid lockdown by the way.
This was an informal move as the agency I rented from didn't know about this and this ended up causing her allot of stress as she felt like she didn't belong and her position was at risk. She didn't attend university from that point onwards and wouldn't go back with her mum as it would be too shameful for her so she stayed with me.
Now we lived there for the next few months and in all honesty from my perspective things weren't bad, she didn't work for over 6 months and I made enough to get us by quite well so she could slowly find her way and we had lots of happy memories with a not many fights and if we did fights it was about me gaming too much or being a little lazy after work etc.
This got to a point where she didn't feel safe enough anymore and wanted to move out after the agency found out her staying there. So during the end of the 2nd year I found a studio for us to move into and we moved in, bought some furniture and in all honesty things seemed to start going well.
The studio was allot more expensive (London prices) and I started to struggle to keep us afloat which caused me to go into significant debt.
At the point our fights started to escalate, it would always be about me doing something wrong that slighted her in some way or how she started feeling bad about herself putting us in that position and if I didn't make her feel better in that moment she would run the narrative of me being emotionally neglectful and say it would be better both if us for her to leave.(I always thought this was self destructive af as she would always blame herself for everything during tense situations, shes the type of girl to say sorry non stop when she's self loathing). I dont want to paint her negatively as I was also to blame for these escalations, I grew up with constant struggle in my life so emotionally I am very compact and self sustained, if she told me she was OK I thought she was OK and didn't pursue further. That didn't go to well as she still needed me to make her feel better when she was saying she was OK.
There were many of these fights and it got so bad that she ended up packing a backpack and going out where I had to chase her and convince her to come back for her own safety and that I cared and loved her and that whatever she felt we could work through together (she would go out and just stay out on a bench somewhere on the middle of the night in a not so safe part of london).
Allot of this was around me doing everything for us and her not being able to do or even have the confidence to do anything herself. She still didn't have a job by then and as finances got tighter we couldn't do as much so that made her mental health even worse.(I did my best to tell her that I didn't hold anything against her and that all I wanted her to do was to be comfortable and try to find her path at her own pace. But that didn't stop her from holding it against herself., it got so bad that she told me she didn't have confidence to even go back to work anymore and that maybe she should just go on the universal credit system, she eventually got over that after getting a good opportunity in a local office). As I said before due to trauma and a harsh childhood I made sure to at least have everything sorted, bills paid on time, food on our tables, ease of living, chance to experience good memories for dates even on financial pressure, my goal was to always make the best out of life. If anything she felt like I was bringing everything to the relationship and she wasn't bringing enough so it would eat at her. (She rejected me buying her presents on her birthday or just randomly when I was trying to be romantic which blew up into another argument because she couldn't do anything in "return of equal value" her words)
Now through ups and downs we kept at it although it was quite dysfunctional at times she found an even better paying job and things finally started to seem like they were going to start moving forward, we sat down had a deep talk about furtre plans and started saving to move out of London together.
Due to financial constraints and saving requiring allot for cars, new house, new furniture etc (something she planned) we couldn't go on any dates often (we struggled to save during the cost of living crisis with bills skyrocketing so we weren't able to have much saved, which caused her to fall into a mild depression) and then and all we really did was schedule things around her family and their events (she has a large family and every few weeks there would be a birthday or family celebration where we would go out and spend the weekend leisurely enjoying ourselves)
For context I only have my sibling and mother and don't have any contact with my family abroad. Even then my relationship with my mother is strained at times due to conflict from childhood that spanned into adulthood, I also don't really have friends bar from my gaming friends who I talk to online at times so social life wise I didnt really have one but being introverted I never found that an issue.
Now she likes her family but can't stand her mother at times and that stresses her out really badly as theyre complete opposites when it comes to personality and dealing with things so when she gets heated she doesn't back down until she breaks down or wins the argument. Very stubborn but bar from the extremes I liked that about her.
Now on our 3rd anniversary day, (new job she works from 9am - 6:30pm but tends to stay there until 8 or 9pm due to the nature of emergencies at her workplace.) I planned around it and made a candlelight dinner ready tried to have everything detail ready to make her and our night special. She comes home at midnight after a serious emergency which sucked because these things aren't actually her responsibilities. Then ate a little, didn't even mention our anniversary. I was pretty pissed off but didn't show it. We went to bed then she states depressive that she doesn't know who she is anymore, she wants to find out what she likes and who she is. Wanting to not be someone's something while she explores. States she can't do so whilst in a relationship as she will just be someone's girlfriend and not herself. Tells me we should cancel our future plans and save to move out.
She says she wants me, says that this isn't about sleeping around and that if we were to stay in the relationship while she does this it wouldn't be fair on me as she would feel like she's dragging me around (her words).
She mentioned a few terms so far, "youre my ex now" "think of things kind of like friends with benefits but we don't date any other people".
But when we introduce ourselves to other people we should say were single. As again she can't be someone's girlfriend and find out who she is and what she wants.???
So we don't have enough saved to do anything yet. At least for another month and a half. So we're still staying at the studio together. I've tried to clarify what this means for us with hervbut this is literally what she wants. Says it wasn't intentional to happen on our anniversary.
In all honesty I'm blindsided, extremely fucking heartbroken. We built this relationship around a ride or die value that we shared, I would do anything for this girl and now I'm her ex, she's single but we're still together. It's confusing as fuck.
I honestly don't know how to feel, it's killing me inside, I dont want to hurt her and yet it feels like she's hurting me so fucking much.
She says that "it's not as if everythings ended, this is just a short pause for us". What does this even mean. It doesn't make sense to me. How can she act like everythings ok when were literally and officially no longer in a relationship.
I feel like im starting to ramble, there is so much internal conflict rn that I'm having a hard time keeping things structured.
ive been doing my best all this time to give her the best environment for her to get back on her feet but she says it's better for us to "RESET" as she needs this but doesn't want to hurt anyone, that includes her mother. Like why can't she find herself but stay in this relationship?? Whats stopping her? I get she says that she can't focus on herself if she's in one but why??? When we had similar issues in the past we would both support eachother through it but this time.. this is something she wants to do alone by herself. Idk man. It fucking hurts.
Sorry this is getting a little much for me so I'm gonna end it here but will do my best to clarify if anyone needs more context in the comments.
Thank you.
[TLDR: My gf of 3 years has decided to RESET on her life and drop all her relationships so she can find a sense of self, I dont know how to handle this]
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2023.06.05 09:34 13buttons Pregnant and fell due to apartment buildings inaccessible walkway/entrance?

My husband and I rent the top floor apartment in a building with a total of 9 apartments. The side we’re on only has 3 apartments and a set of stairs to access the 2nd and 3rd floor apartment, there is a sidewalk/walkway that leads to the stairs as well as the bottom floor apartment. Unfortunately the entrance of the sidewalk/walkway is always blocked by a car meaning you have to step over the curb and go around to get to the walkway, this wouldn’t be an issue if it was even ground on the other side of the curb but it is not, instead it’s more of a drop down and nothing but loose dirt/gravel. It was horrible in the winter due to snow build up on the curb so you never knew if you were off the curb or not until you pretty much fell on a car, we should have brought it up then but we naively hoped it would be better once the snow melted. I’m currently 30 weeks pregnant and while carrying groceries in I once again could not access the walkway so I stepped over the curb to go around and the loose uneven dirt gave way and I ended up falling fairly hard, thankfully I was able to protect my belly so baby is ok but I ended up bruised and bloodied and with several pulled muscles that making moving extremely uncomfortable. I plan to email our property management today to inform them of what happened and ask that the spot in front of our walkway be made into a no parking spot like the building next to us and the two in front of us. Do they have any legal obligation to have the walkway cleared for access? Thank you!
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2023.06.05 09:26 icapaige427 How to support 4yo with moving across the country

Hello all!
My son is 4 years old and got diagnosed with level 1 autism. He is usually very well behaved and is super sweet.
However, we recently moved across the country and it has been extremely hard for him. He lost his "person" (grandma) and is now struggling. I am doing my best to help him with the transition but I don't know if I am pushing him too hard.
Some background:
We needed to live with my MIL for a year when he was 1-2 (COVID). She became his person and was also his daycare provider. However, she didn't follow any boundaries and spoiled him. He does not know the meaning of no because she will buy whatever we don't. She also gave him whatever he wanted to eat and would never encourage him to try new foods.
Now that we moved it is a shock to his system because he doesn't get whatever he wants whenever he wants it. I am trying to slowly transition him away from eating junk all the time but I don't know how to convince him that new food won't kill him. I have a stock of his favorite foods (Kraft dinnechicken nuggets) so that he won't go hungry but I always feel like I'm "giving in" when I feed it to him. But he won't try new food if he knows that those two are options. I never force him to eat. I always make a plate of what we are eating and ask him to try something - even just licking it, using sweets as a reward since he is always asking for some. But I am normally unsuccessful and he ends up eating KD.
I do bring him shopping with me to try and get him to choose something with varying success (got him to switch to cheerios instead of lucky charms!)
Another thing is the meltdowns. I knew to expect them with the move but.... I don't know how to handle them. My husband does not understand or have the patience and makes everything worse and I just don't know what to do. I try to bring him to his bedroom and cuddle with him (he gets anxious if I leave him). Once he is calm enough I try to talk him through what happened and what we could change. Is there anything else I can do?
Finally bedtime! He always needs someone is bed with him as he falls asleep, but the closer he gets to sleep, the more he fights it and he gets violent- biting, kicking, hitting. Usually I give him 3 warnings then walk out of the room for 5-10 minutes (depending on what I hear on the other side of the door - if he is being destructive I don't reenter) I will then ask if he is ready for me to come back in and start everything over again. The third time I leave, I don't come back because I am usually past my breaking point then. Am I doing this all wrong and making things worse? He tells me he doesn't like it when I leave and I have tried to explain to him that I don't like it when he hurts me. I feel like a failure.
If you read all this, thank you. Any and all advice will be read and appreciated, even if I don't respond. If you have any questions, let me know!
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2023.06.05 09:25 32Gold Mental health

hey everyone, hope you're doing well. Last month or so, i was feeling overwhelmed and made a post about possibly taking a break from RS, and there seemed to be a lot of support from other addicts/daily players/returning players/casual/new players, etc... it was really eye opening and has increased the quality of my life two-fold. i appreciate anyone who took the time to comment and share their story or give advice.
flash forward a month or two unto this very moment, i've decided that i'll be officially leaving (dailyscape) june 12th. with more immediate changes like playtime reduction and physical activity happening today monday june 5th.
i really really love this game, and all of my online friends. it's practically all i live for, and while it's been a good 3-4ish years, i really need to stop sitting down for like 8-18/+ hrs daily. it's draining, and i'm sleepless most days. my arms, back, knees, very weak. whats crazy is that doesnt even include my time spent on the cellphone scrolling reddit/twitteinstagram/youtube all day.
My diet has been daily 2-4litres of coca cola/pepsi soda and tens of thousands of dollars in delivery orders. which at times has put me in the negatives/debt and neapenniless several times. even wasnt able to pay my rent one time because of it and that was a bad month playing catch up. all while still playing the same amount. and it's crazy cuz there was a solid year or two where i only survived because i stumbled into a situation with an abusive but somewhat caring partner who kept me fed and would help me with housework. enabling me to play more. and instead of caring about my situation and doing something about it, i didn't tell anyone until it was too late for me. i was afraid of losing food and extra rs playtime comfort, and they used it against me in the worst ways. but thats on me. nobody else. not the point of the post, but just saying that focusing solely on Runescape can really prevent you from 'running and escaping' your real problems. in the real world. it's like putting blinders on a horse... all fine and dandy because it can carry a few hundred extra pounds, but eventually some miles down the road it will possibly have some sort of fracture/injury/death.
im now fully aware that i hid/e behind my addiction and it's not helping long-term. no matter what i tell myself, and what my 'friends' and commenters have said.. it's not cool.... and its not healthy to play hours on end every single day, unless you;re already maybe housebound or chronically ill. but the exception does'nt make the rule.
in recent months it seems like everyone wants to throw around the word 'fomo' (fear of missing out) and it can be a real thing forsure, but only if you let it be.
i/we need to be accountable instead of something like chuckling at our 'time played' on steam overlay. it's really not funny bros.
same with "just logging for dailies" it's never just that most times, and doing every reaper + daily + dnd x2/4 back to back within a small timeframe certainly does'nt help either. the xp and gp rates are some of the best for the time played... i can agree, forsure. but is it really fun in comparison to a full life outside of runescape? really think about that.. it took me lots of notetaking and comparison/research/conversations just to even start thinking. i was sold the illusion that i can do whatever i want because it's my life. which is true!!! and hey i definitley loved playing 12=18 hours some days, forsure, but i couldnt begin to tell you how many times ive played for days and weeks on end with not a glimmer of hope.. just because i wanted to force prgoression. it's scary to think back on it sometimes because whenever i look at my window from outside on the way home now one of the first thoughts is "wow i cant believe i've sat behind that curatin for 250+ days playtime".... almost literally can't unsee the imaginary shadow of depression that lurks in my window.
when people say "do whatever you want" they almost will never lay out the consequences for you.. because it's your situation to deal with... and that's fair. figuring stuff out on your own is oftentimes a really large part of life, i mean heck me and my buddies would joke about touching grass and opening the curtains for sun these past years.. like i mean yeah it's an mmorpg, but it should'nt be the end of our lives. confined to a chair. i literally didnt realize the damage i was doing.
funny story, so two weeks ago i bought an $80 mop and spin bucket instead of ordering takeout food for the day. when it arrived i realized i couldnt even sweep or mop because i had hundreds of soda cans, delivery food bags, and random stuff all over the floor. after spending 12 hours cleaning it up, i mopped the floor for the first time in........ 16 months? maybe longer? was probably like near xmas 2021 last time i swiffered/reusable mop, and wow bros i mean wow.... i know i forgot and i knew it was dirty all the time.. but like.. not that dirty.. it literally took me x4 buckets on each section of my apartment, a whole bottle of floor cleaner, and lots and lots and lots of moving around.. even passed out from exhaustion at one point. it was embarassing.... i felt like asmongold when he went to build his ikea bedframe with pinksparkles, but couldnt because he was too lightheaded. if anyone knows what im talking about you know thats not a good thing lol.
after i woke up to nice clean floors, but messy everything else, i revisted the old post i made about contemplating a break, and it was like i had a sudden realization that mopping my floors is only 1/100th of the responsibility and accountability i should be holding in my daily life. fr. since those past few weeks i have now swept and mopped every other day with the windows and curtains open. it has literally been changing my life. going barefoot ona nice clean floor with a fresh scent really makes the place feel like 'home' and brightened up. i dont know how to explain it bros but i promise if theres one small step thats worth making.. its having a clean floor, clean kitchen, clean bathroom, and clean bed. feels like a 5-star hotel or some kind of exspensive airb&b rental. which is crazy.
so odd to think with the money ive spent to be a degen on rs3, i could've been pursuing my dreams of nationwide, and worldwide travelling - literally could've even bought a small piece of land, fixed up an old vehicle, and camper trailer aswell. all of my major life goals would've been met... odd.
starting to realize it's really weird how i have many accounts, billions of xp, gold, rares, etc... but truly not very much to show in the real world other than my awesome personality and smile. which means a lot to a select few, sure, but probably means nothing to the majority.
nobody except my rs friends and readers of this post know that i sometimes stay inside for 1-12 months at a time (zero sunlight) playing 12 hour days the majority of the week. it's always been my little secret that i sweep under the rug. like a dirty little cave goblin.
i really don't know any helpline phone numbers anyone can call if there in the same position as me, because i've never had any assistance or anybody to talk to except the people i play with everyday, and honestly while playing does help in the moment, it's not ideal. not saying you cant do it like i did or keep doing it or whatever.. your call homies, but like this post is specifically for the bros wanting to pursue recovery and make positive change.. not quit.. just fix things to a healthy playstyle.
it's not impossible bros, please don't give up and relapse if there's something you want to achieve in the real world. we're all gonna make it brah. i promise you.
someone said it a few months ago on here and i cant remember who, but "RS will always be there for us. always. and the real homies will keep your discord and rsn on their list." and with max cash + necromancy being released soon, i just know for my sake that it's time to slow things down. i can't/won't play catch up with re-maxing my acc/s and finshing trim. i just cant do it for my health sake and at this point im finally OK with it taking years.
irdk if this post is even allowed, but i just really wanted to share my experience of addiction and my journey to a healthy recovery and healthy playtime.
i really love everyone in this subreddit and lots of people on the rs official discord server. except the trolls of course! lol! but yeah RS family.. it's time i start being a more casual player instead of daily addiction. i miss sitting down in a restraunt, going on hikes, going to gym, tanning, basic hygiene. you know normal everyday human stuff that's shown to increase quality of your life. all the stuff that i used to somewhat do before covid pandemic. which isnt an excuse. just saying the pandemic really exacerbated my already bad situation and ended up putting blinders on. thats all. my fault 100%.
hang in there bros, you're not alone ,not now not in the past not in the future, you have more support than you know and all it takes is making those first few steps... sometimes and id probably personally even go as far to say.. most times those first steps and reaching out to someone can be the hardest. i'm living proof of that, but every centimeter you move forward is another centimeter from falling back, bros. which really makes all the difference.
really really hope everyone has a really good monday update and monday morning... and a really productive week too - y'all are on my mind all the time and i don't know where i'd be and what i'd be doing without y'all. this community has saved me and rebuilt me from the ground up too many times to count. thankyou coomunity.
also goodnight to the late night players who didnt go to bed a hella longtime ago, lolz. imma get a few hours of sleep too then need to walk across town and drop off some mail.
but yeah if anyone needs a buddy for the next few days or wants to learn some pvm/skilling tips, or even just vent for some support or something about ur addiction... i'll be around a little bit for the next week on reddit and ingame for small stuff until june 12.
also p.s. i'll end this with a hot-take: Mental health awareness event and the matching MHAW promo that ended early was absolutely terrible and did my/friends mental health no favours. which we're aware is our fault, but really just seemed like one big, poorly planned, cash grab.
have a great week y'all
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2023.06.05 09:23 Uberantwild Misery loves company narcissistic sister

For the past 20 years she's been abusing me and she's very nosey into my business. She hates the fact I do well and she wants others in the community to think I'm crazy or mental person. Just because she came to America she thinks she's high level and better than others. Anything I do she gets bothered by. A lady from our own people was interested in marriage with me and she got bothered by it and said "That woman is too old for you". But that girl was actually a few years younger than me.
The crazy sister even told me that her 3 other younger brothers are her brothers and myself and brother older than me aren't her brothers. She also told me some girls from our home country she met in Tennessee were laughing at me when she told them I screamed from the shower (because she heard me scream when cold water accidentally touched me when I thought it was warm I was using).
When I bought a house with my mom and even paid part down payment mom informed me the sister (her daughter) was telling her to not listen to me and that she bought a nice house. She's making me come across as the undesired/unwanted person to my mom even for a house I bought with mom.
Years ago I remember when her husband called me to ask me to come join them in Black Friday shopping in Best Buy and when I arrived I saw him pretending to be looking around stuff because he knew she would ask me to buy a computer for tbem since he wanted her to surf my pockets and them she comes up to me and says "Ozzy I'll pay you back in tax return time can you buy me that computer?". I was surprised he didn't just ask me to buy the $700 computer since I am uncle to his kids. I did anyways because I had surplus of cash but she never paid me back during that tax return time. She essentially swindled me or bait/switched me. I suspect she told him "We can easily milk that guy". I suspect he knows this woman doesn't like me or thinks differently of me. Funny they've been divorcing and their parents have been trying to get them back together. He currently pays rent and all and sometimes visits them but I don't think they're together. He drives truck most of the time. They've fought numerous times.
Most recently she was visiting our home country and she contacted me to ask me if I can Zelle her $4k because she was broke and her hubby wasn't sending her enough. He was only sending her rent and some extra money for food. She said she would repay me during tax return time and Informed her sorry I can't because you told me that before a few times and you never did. I later found out she got some big money some other way because she bought our half sister a new phone and she and her oldest son had the time of their life on resort beaches and all. Some other friend of hers sent ber something. She thought of me to be dome dumb person or someone she can keep taking advantage of.
While she was there visiting country she tried to talk with a relative of ours that I filed process to bring to America. Relatives mom is here in America too. The lady didn't do anything wrong to her and never ever met her but the crazy Narcissist sister was telling me they're just using me for papers and not to bring her here etc etc. It really doesn't concern her. She tried calling her but the lady ignored her calls because I already told the lady in advance about the fact crazy sister was not happy with me bringing her to America. Crazy sister even told me that the waiting times are 7 years and that she instead should go boat to Europe or jump through US Mexico border. I informed the relative of all this stuff she said and she was surprised because she never met her.
In conclusion I finally informed the sister that it isn't those people that are her problem, it's me because she's always being bothered by everything about me. It would take more pages to tell you guys all the other stuff she did to me in past near 20 years. I'm out of your life because you're always hostile towards me and bothered by everything I do. If it was her other brother doing stuff like bringing a relative to America via a relative petition, she would not be saying anything bad about the relative of mine or anything else he does. This sister just hates me from the inside and thinks I'm embarrassing her and our family when I actually am not.
I told her I'm blocking you for good. As your kids get older if they miss me and wanna see me again, you can arrange with mom and her house for me to meet them.
I made it clear I believe she's a narcissist and will never leave me alone as long as I am in her life. Just because she's conscious and she was brought to America via plane back when she was 18 makes her think she's very high up there and haughty. When she was visiting our developing home country recently, I was informed she was bossing around aunties and people and mentioning she's from America and has wealth but the luxury home she was in was being rented with her truck driver husbands money and she doesn't have any money of her own. She's broke. Those people in that developing country often have more money and luxury cars so it surprises me why her narcissist self would think she's higher than them.
It's been a month since I've been out of her life but I informed her our relative lady is gonna come to America via plane flight and fyi she has a nice job there where she currently is and you're not higher than her.
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2023.06.05 09:15 smuhz Confused and troubled

Hi 25m here, Currently working in an MNC based in Lahore while renting a place here and living all on my own alone while my family and my entire social circle are in Karachi. I am doing very well financially and make frequently make round trips to Karachi every two/three or so and it’s almost been an year or so but I feel like I still haven’t settled here nor have put up any energy to build any social network outside work
Issue is that during my university days I feel for this girl, had genuine feeling for her, confessed it to but it didn’t work out. We are still connected as friends but this has really taken a hit on me. I feel really lonely but I don’t think I have the energy or the heart to make an effort to socialise with someone new outside my circle now My friends told me to sign up on bumble and date and get it out of my system I did get a few connections on it within 2/3 days while I was on it but neither I had the enthusiasm or the energy to build on it, and I unmatched and deleted it. I was thinking on pursuing higher studies getting an MBA from Lums but that would mean I would have to leave my current job & it doesn’t add any value to it since I am already at an MNC & within Pk i don’t think I can do any better
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2023.06.05 09:12 icapaige427 How to support 4yo after moving across the country?

Hello all, I browsed this sub a little bit and am not sure if this is the right one but I'll try!
My son is 4 years old and got diagnosed with level 1 autism. He is usually very well behaved and is super sweet.
However, we recently moved across the country and it has been extremely hard for him. He lost his "person" (grandma) and is now struggling. I am doing my best to help him with the transition but I don't know if I am pushing him too hard.
Some background:
We needed to live with my MIL for a year when he was 1-2 (COVID). She became his person and was also his daycare provider. However, she didn't follow any boundaries and spoiled him. He does not know the meaning of no because she will buy whatever we don't. She also gave him whatever he wanted to eat and would never encourage him to try new foods.
Now that we moved it is a shock to his system because he doesn't get whatever he wants whenever he wants it. I am trying to slowly transition him away from eating junk all the time but I don't know how to convince him that new food won't kill him. I have a stock of his favorite foods (Kraft dinnechicken nuggets) so that he won't go hungry but I always feel like I'm "giving in" when I feed it to him. But he won't try new food if he knows that those two are options. I never force him to eat. I always make a plate of what we are eating and ask him to try something - even just licking it, using sweets as a reward since he is always asking for some. But I am normally unsuccessful and he ends up eating KD.
I do bring him shopping with me to try and get him to choose something with varying success (got him to switch to cheerios instead of lucky charms!)
Another thing is the meltdowns. I knew to expect them with the move but.... I don't know how to handle them. My husband does not understand or have the patience and makes everything worse and I just don't know what to do. I try to bring him to his bedroom and cuddle with him (he gets anxious if I leave him). Once he is calm enough I try to talk him through what happened and what we could change. Is there anything else I can do?
Finally bedtime! He always needs someone is bed with him as he falls asleep, but the closer he gets to sleep, the more he fights it and he gets violent- biting, kicking, hitting. Usually I give him 3 warnings then walk out of the room for 5-10 minutes (depending on what I hear on the other side of the door - if he is being destructive I don't reenter) I will then ask if he is ready for me to come back in and start everything over again. The third time I leave, I don't come back because I am usually past my breaking point then. Am I doing this all wrong and making things worse? He tells me he doesn't like it when I leave and I have tried to explain to him that I don't like it when he hurts me. I feel like a failure.
If you read all this, thank you. Any and all advice will be read and appreciated, even if I don't respond. If you have any questions, let me know!
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2023.06.05 09:00 LateDoctor8546 subleasing cds 4b4. 5b housing offer over the summer ONLY for 700 or LESS (originally 1200)

I'm looking for someone (female would be best but open to males too) who can take my cds offer over the summer(6-9). It's a private bedroom with a private bathroom. The monthly rent is 1200ish original but I'm only leasing it for 700 or less since I'm not staying over during the summer and need to find someone who could take the offer. hit me up for more information:)
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2023.06.05 08:58 InternationalLaw5786 Divan Beds Headboards: The Ultimate Guide to Comfort and Style

When it comes to creating a cozy and inviting bedroom, one of the key elements to consider is the choice of a divan bed and its accompanying headboard. These essential pieces of furniture not only provide support and comfort but also add a touch of style and elegance to your bedroom decor. In this comprehensive guide, we will delve into the world of divan beds and headboards, exploring their benefits, various types, materials, and design options. Whether you're looking to revamp your bedroom or searching for the perfect sleeping arrangement, this article will equip you with all the knowledge you need to make an informed decision.

Why Choose a Divan Bed?

Comfort and Support

A divan bed is known for its exceptional comfort and support. The sturdy base and mattress combination offer excellent stability, ensuring a restful night's sleep. The base acts as a solid foundation, providing optimum support to the mattress, resulting in enhanced comfort and reduced pressure points. With a divan bed, you can wake up refreshed and rejuvenated, ready to take on the day.

Storage Solutions

One of the standout features of divan beds is their practicality. Many models come with built-in storage options, such as drawers or ottomans, maximizing the use of space in your bedroom. These clever storage solutions are perfect for keeping your belongings organized and minimizing clutter. Say goodbye to unnecessary bedroom mess and hello to a clean and tidy sleeping environment.

Versatility in Design

Divan beds offer endless design possibilities, allowing you to personalize your bedroom according to your taste and style. From luxurious upholstered options to sleek and modern designs, there's a divan bed to suit every aesthetic preference. Additionally, the headboard plays a crucial role in the overall look and feel of the bed. It serves as a focal point and can transform the entire ambiance of the room. With a wide range of headboard styles, fabrics, and finishes available, you can create a bed that perfectly complements your decor.

Exploring Divan Bed Types

Open Spring Divan Beds

Open spring divan beds are a popular choice due to their affordability and comfort. They consist of a system of interconnected springs, which provide even support and distribute weight evenly across the mattress. While open spring divan beds offer good value for money, they may not provide the same level of durability as other options.

Pocket Spring Divan Beds

Pocket spring divan beds are a step up in terms of comfort and support. Each spring is individually housed in a fabric pocket, allowing them to move independently. This feature ensures that the mattress adapts to your body shape and provides targeted support. Pocket spring divan beds are particularly beneficial for couples, as the movement of one partner is less likely to disturb the other.

Memory Foam Divan Beds

If you prioritize pressure relief and body contouring, a memory foam divan bed might be the perfect choice for you. Memory foam mattresses conform to your body's shape, providing optimal support and alleviating any pressure points. They are also excellent at isolating motion, making them ideal for light sleepers or those sharing a bed.

Hybrid Divan Beds

Hybrid divan beds combine the best of both worlds by incorporating different mattress technologies. These beds often feature a combination of pocket springs and memory foam layers, offering the benefits of both support and comfort. Hybrid divan beds are a great option for individuals who desire the responsiveness of springs and the contouring effect of memory foam.

Selecting the Perfect Headboard

Upholstered Headboards

suede, or linen, allowing you to choose a texture that matches your style. These headboards often feature padding, providing added comfort and a cozy feel. Upholstered headboards are versatile and can be customized to fit any bedroom decor, making them a popular choice among homeowners seeking a touch of sophistication.

Wooden Headboards

For a more classic and timeless look, wooden headboards are an excellent option. They come in various types of wood, such as oak, pine, or walnut, each with its distinct grain and finish. Wooden headboards add warmth and character to a bedroom, and their durability ensures they will stand the test of time. Whether you prefer a rustic, traditional, or contemporary aesthetic, there's a wooden headboard to suit your taste.

Metal Headboards

Metal headboards offer a sleek and modern aesthetic to any bedroom. With intricate designs and elegant curves, they can become a focal point and add a touch of glamour. Metal headboards are available in different finishes, including chrome, brass, or iron, allowing you to create a look that complements your overall decor theme. These headboards are not only visually appealing but also durable and easy to maintain.

Divan Bed Size Considerations

When choosing a divan bed and headboard, it's important to consider the size that best suits your needs. Divan beds are available in various sizes, including single, double, king, and super king. Assess the dimensions of your bedroom and ensure there's enough space to accommodate the bed and any additional furniture comfortably. Additionally, the height and width of the headboard should be proportionate to the bed size, creating a visually balanced and harmonious look.

Maintaining and Caring for Divan Beds and Headboards

To ensure the longevity and pristine condition of your divan bed and headboard, it's essential to follow proper maintenance and care practices. Here are a few tips to keep them looking their best:
  1. Regularly vacuum or brush the headboard to remove dust and debris.
  2. For upholstered headboards, spot clean any stains or spills immediately using a mild detergent and water.
  3. Rotate the mattress periodically to even out wear and prolong its lifespan.
  4. Follow the manufacturer's instructions for cleaning and maintaining the divan bed base.
  5. Avoid placing the bed in direct sunlight to prevent fabric and wood from fading.
  6. Use mattress protectors and bed linen to keep the bed clean and protect it from spills or accidents.
  7. Check and tighten any loose screws or fittings on the headboard regularly.
By implementing these simple care practices, you can extend the life of your divan bed and headboard, ensuring they remain in top-notch condition for years to come.


A divan bed with a carefully chosen headboard can transform your bedroom into a sanctuary of comfort and style. The combination of a supportive base, comfortable mattress, and aesthetically pleasing headboard creates a harmonious sleep environment that promotes relaxation and rejuvenation. Whether you opt for an open spring, pocket spring, memory foam, or hybrid divan bed, each offers unique benefits to suit individual preferences. Similarly, the selection of an upholstered, wooden, or metal headboard allows you to add your personal touch to the overall design. Remember to consider the size and maintenance requirements when making your choice. With the information provided in this guide, you are well-equipped to make an informed decision and create the bedroom of your dreams.
So, embrace the comfort and style of divan beds and headboards, and elevate your sleep experience to new heights. Visit https://bedsdivans.co.uk for more inspiration, expert advice
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2023.06.05 08:54 TekkenWarrior Any place to rent video games?

I know the public library has a selection of video games, but they don't have everything. For example try finding a Resident Evil game in any of the libraries. Well I just checked and only the Richmond library carries any RE games and it's only RE6 and RE8 Village.
Is there any place in metro Vancouver that still rents out video games? It's one thing for streaming to have killed the video store, but the video game store wouldn't be affected by it. I know of Willow's video all the way in Langley, but is there any place a bit closer? Some games you kind of just want to try out first and not completely buy.
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2023.06.05 08:53 RudeSize4303 Homestays vs. Hotels in Coonoor: Why You Should Consider a Homestay

If you’re planning a trip to Coonoor, you might be looking for the best places to stay. While there are many hotels and resorts in the area, a homestay in Coonoor can offer a unique experience to the best of local life. Here’s why you should consider a homestay over a hotel in Coonoor:
  1. Truly Local Experience: If you stay at a homestay in Coonoor, you’ll get the opportunity to experience the best of local culture. At a homestay, you’ll be living with a local family that can provide the best insights into Coonoors history, traditions, and food. Unlike hotels, where things are standardized and borderline generic, homestays offer authentic and personalized experiences.
  2. Personal Attention: Homestays are usually run by families that take pride in providing the best experiences for their guests that are welcoming and comfortable. The hosts of the homestay will offer personal attention, including local tours, and recommendations of the best spots to eat and shop. Also, to add richness to your travel experience, you can interact with the hosts to learn about their lifestyles.
  3. Unique Spots of Living: You can often find homestays in unique and historic buildings, such as colonial bungalows, tea estates, or traditional homes. These places usually offer a unique accommodation experience that you won’t find in a standard hotel. You’ll get the chance to live in a place that is full of history and character, that will help to make your trip more memorable.
These were some of the benefits of a homestay in Coonoor. Here’s a look at some of the best homestays in the area to narrow down your choices:
  1. Tea Nest Homestay: If you’re looking for the best homestay in Coonoor, look no further. This homestay is in a tea estate and offers beautiful views of the Nilgiri Mountains. With well-furnished rooms, a garden, and a play area for kids, there’s plenty for everyone. The host of this homestay also offers guided tours of the tea plantations, local treks, and cultural shows.
  2. Alpinia: A quaint place located in the tea gardens of Coonoor, it is a cozy 3 BHK villa with a beautiful view of the hills. Its vintage interiors give it a warm vibe that makes you feel instantly at home. The beds are large and comfortable and two bedrooms have attached bathrooms.
  3. Aashirwad: Tucked in the seclusion and calmness of Coonoor, you can lose yourself to the eternal beauty of nature surrounding the Aashirwaad villa. The panoramic view of hills and waterfalls surrounding a private manicured rose garden are few of the many things that are sure to make this home a pure delight.
If you choose the best homestay in Coonoor, it can offer you an experience that is completely different from a hotel stay. Homestays provide an opportunity to experience the local culture and lifestyle, receive personalized attention and assistance, and stay in unique and historic properties. If you’re planning a trip to Coonoor, consider a homestay for your trip, and make sure to check out some of the best choices, such as The Tea Nest Homestay, Sunvalley Homestay, and The Gateway Homestay.
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2023.06.05 08:51 ausername- being in poverty really sucks.

i've been poor my entire life. my father had money, growing up, but he never wanted to spend much on me. he got me food and my clothes, but outside of bare essentials he wouldn't spend money on anything for me. i had poor friends who had more toys and video games than i had. even other single parent families did.
when i was very young i saved up all of the money i'd get from christmas and birthday cards. i had a small fortune, it seemed to me. it was probably only a little over 1 or 2 hundred dollars, but to very young me that was a lot. i was proud of myself for saving it, for not wasting it on anything dumb. one day, my father saw me counting it, and he took it from me. he must have thought i'd stolen it from me, he just told me he put it in my bank account (we started bank accounts in kindergarten or first or second grade or something like that, it had nothing really in it, just 25 dollars or so), but he never did. after that, i had a really hard time holding on to money, i just wanted to spend it before he'd have the opportunity to take it away again. i think i developed some kind of complex because of that, honestly.
i had a summer job, when i was 14, or so. i was a "CIT", a "counselor in training," for my local boys and girls' club. They just had you work 3 weeks out of the summer and they paid you 50 dollars a week. It was below minimum wage, I don't know why they were allowed to do that but it was somehow legally allowed by law to pay minors less than minimum wage. so i worked for my 3 weeks and my father never let me spend that money. he forced me to put it all in the bank and not buy myself anything with it, even though he'd let my older brother buy a pair of sunglasses with his when he was 14. i didn't get access to that money until I was 19 or something like that.
then i got my first real job, probably at 19 or so, cleaning a bank for an hour a night 5 nights a week. then they cut me back to 2 or 3 nights a week. i forgot how much i was making then, but it couldn't have been much more than 50 dollars a week. i did that for like 3 years before i got a job at the taco bell.
i worked part time for a few years, always at that taco bell. it was a taco bell / long john silver's combined restaurant, i fried the fish and chicken and french fries. i could only work part time, even then when i was 23 or 24 or so. at first i worked more than i could handle, something like 16 or 18 hours a week, or so. three or four nights a week. but, after a while, that was too much for me, so i cut it back to two 4-hour shifts a week. it didn't pay much, but it gave me enough money to eat at the mcdonalds i practically lived out of with how often i was forced to eat there. it was 3 quarters of a mile away and i had to walk there and back every time i ate there, but it was open 24 hours - for a while, at least -, and i needed a place to eat late at night, since i wasn't allowed to eat late at home. literally most of my money i earned went into eating because i wasn't allowed to eat in my home at night.
i didn't work for a couple of years but then i moved in with my mom and her awful alcoholic partner who extorts money out of me. first he forced me to work while i was waiting on my disability claim to come through, which had negative implications for my claim and also aversely affected my benefits once my benefits actually came through. i had to work at some dumb convenience store, stocking the sodas in the cooler, for 2 four hour shifts a week. i didn't make much money. maybe 400 dollars a month? i had to pay half of that in rent, so i'd only have 200 dollars to spend on myself, and importantly, my dog, for an entire month. things like vet bills wiped out months of savings. i'm constantly worried about money.
now i'm on disability, and i get very little money from it. i get barely more than enough to pay my rent - and, now that i'm on medicare, i have to spend more money on my medical treatment than i had to when i was on medicaid, which i no longer qualify for since i'm on medicare now. i've actually been losing money month to month lately without even spending anything on myself, i just make less per month than my expenses.
and this is just going to be the rest of my life. i will always be poor. i will never feel secure. my entire life has been in poverty.
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2023.06.05 08:48 mindfulsubconscious "Stray" ...is now my issue.

I have a diabetic cat. He found me. After 2-3 weeks on my porch with no food, I was finally able to take him to the vet for a microchip check. No chip... Became my cat.
First check-up, found out he had diabetes. $1500 later, (we've treated him for two "different" UTIs, plus fancy food, and bexacat) and he's starting to piss in my house on purpose.
Before, with the leakage, I could understand - UTI/ bad hind-leg muscles. but now he's back to hunting squirrels and STILL pissing in my house - and ON PURPOSE now. Caught him AGAIN and yeeted him out.
Idk what to do. I rent. I have a dog. I have other life things and didn't sign up to have this...
I want to care for him but... I don't feel like I can. But if I take him to a shelter, who's going to take him!? And he's clearly an outdoor cat - so what a crappy way to spend your final years...
Anyways, send help... I mean, advice
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2023.06.05 08:47 xartux I am a 27 year old male who was diagnosed with end stage liver disease, alcoholic hepatitis and severe chronic Cirrhosis last spring 2022. Alcoholism is the worst addiction I’ve ever experienced. No other drug has come close. It’s run rampant through my dad, grandpa, uncles and now me…

I was an innocent kid for most of my life. I had horrible untreated anxiety that I didn’t understand and it got the best of me when I turned 21. I had never really drank or done anything of the sorts until about 19-20 and then the day I turned 21 I was finally able to purchase liquor myself… and it got out of control.
I am 27 years old and was diagnosed last spring at 26 with Liver failure, alcoholic hepatitis and Cirrhosis of the liver with advanced scarring. I was rushed to the emergency trauma center near me in Minneapolis Minnesota after my now fiancée returned home from a work conference out of state and found me in our bedroom completely yellow, tremulous and swollen legs and fluid build up in my stomach. When she left the week before I went on what would be my last drinking bender.
For the past 6 years I was consuming at minimum a liter of 80 proof vodka all the way up to a 1.75 liter handle per day. I stopped once for 2 weeks in 2020 after a small medical scare and also became sick with covid. That’s the longest break I had for those 6 years up until my hospitalization.
I spent a week in the hospital as the doctors tried to do anything they could do to get my increasing liver enzymes and bilirubin down. I was yellow and in a lot of pain. I was immediately placed into CIWA withdrawal protocol and was monitored for worsening mental status and seizures.
I had an MRI done, 2 ultra sounds and countless testing on my first night. I was informed I would need to undergo a transplant in the future as long as they could combat my symptoms. After 3 days the doctors started losing hope of getting it to come down with proven methods. They were left with no choice but to discharge me after a few more days with experimental steroids.
I returned home and was bed ridden while my fiancé spoon fed these steroids once daily and we hoped for a positive outcome. A week later I had blood work done and my bilirubin was decreasing by the day. I was so relieved.
My family is filled with alcoholics and I feel like I was foolish to think it wouldn’t come for me too.
I have since had countless imaging and ultra sounds done that show permanent damage and cirrhotic liver with abnormally enlarged spleen that hurts like a MF. I am now almost 400 days sober and have lost a ton of weight. I finished up my outpatient treatment at the original hospital and gastro clinic here in Minneapolis. I am now getting set up with a liver specialist at the Mayo Clinic here. I will be there getting 2nd opinion tests and imaging done to determine my future. I will most likely need a transplant down the road.
I’m not here to lecture but I wanted to share my story in hopes it helps someone else out. Sober life was hard as hell at first but has gotten so much easier. I am proud of where I’m at but have a long way to go.
On the 3rd morning of my stay I was pretty certain I wasn’t going to make it out. I was able to keep my drinking a secret for 6 years and no one knew about my problem or never questioned me. I didn’t want to get caught and face the embarrassment to my family. I awoke that day and thought about how I was going to have to call up my family members, brother and sister and tell them I wouldn’t be around much longer. I couldn’t stop thinking about how I would never get to see my newly born niece grow up and how selfish my actions were. They would have been so taken off guard and would have to watch me go a slow death. My over was already shutting down and the only thing left was my kidneys next. After those shut down it’s game over.
The last 6 years of my life are a blur. I now run a small business from home while I build my life back up.
Anyways, sorry for the long winded story.
I went to the hospital last year spring 2022 and was diagnosed with advanced liver disease. Addiction can fuck off and so can alcohol.
I drank a liter of vodka a day for 6 years. Don’t be dumb like me and ignore the signs of illness after your body can’t take it anymore.
Here’s a few links with some of my medical experience from that incident. With 400 days under my belt I feel as though I can help someone and prevent making the same mistakes I did.
This is a first for me and I’m only sharing this picture of me when I checked into the emergency room. I just want people to see what can happen in a short amount of heavy drinking time and what might await some alcoholics in their older years.
Peace & love
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2023.06.05 08:39 Elegant-Click340 Pink is the New Black: How to Rock a Two-Tone Pink Bedroom

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2023.06.05 08:35 Beautiful-Breath3265 Is it ADHD?

Right now it's 11 p.m. I'm sitting in my bedroom stimulating the question. I'm F18 just finished High School 3 weeks ago. Just to be aware I was diagnosed with anxiety in 2018.
I never had trouble paying attention when I was little. I never had trouble understanding what was asked for such as favor, how my day was, or where something is. But I realize that in softmore-junior year when covid hit higher and it was just after during math class I started to notice I was having trouble paying attention.
Softmore year for me was more difficult because my school shut down for online instead. But when junior year hit I felt more dumb. I blame it on covid because Covid mostly mess up everyone trying to focus doing their school work or work in general.
My mom came into my Room just the other day and she noticed my pile of clothes on a chair and behide the chair. She said 'That's what makes me think you have ADHD, because the way you pile your clothes all the time.'
I won't lie, it's hard for me to put my clothes away. When I do laundry I do put them away neatly in the bins, but now I just throw them more all over the chair with dirty clothes and I try hard.
I am overly emotional, a couple of times tears came out of eyes and I was perfectly fine. I feel at least 3-5 years younger than I actually am. I feel like I still have a childlike mindset.
I still feel like I cannot connect with others because of it. I now have trouble paying attention because even one on one, I have thoughts running in my head and it cancels out when someone is trying to speak to me.
I stimulate alot, I cannot pay attention to most movies unless I really want to watch it or enjoy it as it goes on, I have a very strong imagination and it bothers me alot, I daydream alot more now.
I ask 'what, please repeat that, say that again' now because I feel like I can hear what someone is asking me but I can't fully process what they are saying. I have a better grip of it but I used to stay still for a few minutes in silence trying to think of an answer or what they said.
I used to be able to pay attention to details not including drawing but now I can't. And alot of stuff when I am asked for, it's right in front of me and I can't see it even though it right there.
I get spasms or tics in my legs, it gets worst with anxiety but I notice when I am relax I don't get it. I get most of the tics In my legs at night. However I notice I get them everywhere in my body during the day but not alot.
I am forgetful more. I even have these mood swings where now I get super excited for a period of time but then get bored and give attitude when I don't mean to. For example it's like I'm bored and depressed (not because someone did something to me but just out of the no where I feel like that)
I used to watch TV all the time but now I have trouble trying to relax and watch it. Same with YouTube, its like I'm bored of it and it really bothers me.
I talk over people alot when I don't mean to, I shout answers when I don't mean to when I am suppose to raise my hand...it's difficult.
And it's really starting to effect my personal life. Is this ADHD?
And if it does sound like ADHD, then I will make an appointment with my doctor to see can get a test for it.
A couple of times I hear my mom may have ADHD but was never comfirm. Please help!
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2023.06.05 08:33 ConstantlyDoneDuck To what extent can off-campus expenses be paid with 529 College Fundings?

I would prefer people admitting if they’ve done this, know of people who’s done it or they’re part of this service. With it having risks in tax fraud and such, I’d appreciate a label or clear admission.
Most of the research I’ve gathered was that the 529 college fundings can be interrupted directly or aggressively/vague. I have an off-campus apartment set up, and I am aware I can only pay the expenses the college allows for dorms.
Ex: $10k dorm (includes food) for 8 months. Some findings say the variance of money doesn’t matter as I can use up to $10k in food and rental fees for the 8 months. Others would say the average of the $10k for 8 months can be used ($1,250 monthly for 8 months).
However, my dilemma is I would be taking summer classes ONLINE. I would only be paying the college tuition, technology, and online course fees. I know I can pay for those with the account. I do not pay for food or any other fees.
From the start of my fall/1st semester college term, would I still be able to pay up to $10k?
Ex: I pay $775 for a combined food and rent fees. I would use $6,200. It’s nearly $4k away from the limit or COA. Would I be able to pay for the summer, or a total of $3,100 since it’s still lower than $10k?
Or, do I use up to the average? I can use up to $1,250 monthly for those specific 4 months I am taking the online classes.
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2023.06.05 08:33 abaybailz 2 Month Itinerary Check - Northern Honshu ideas?

My husband & I are wrapping up a year of travel around Southeast/East Asia with 2 months in Japan...starting tomorrow! (We're heading from Busan to Fukuoka.) A couple notes:
- We're aware the weather's hot and rainy in much of the country this time of year, but unfortunately this was the timing that best worked out for us. We're also trying to take a somewhat slower pace and prefer to avoid any 1-night stays unless truly necessary.
- We do not want to rent a car at any point (we've never driven on the left, plus our IDPs will expire in early July). So while we want a mix of cities and nature, we need to stick to destinations we can access by train or bus.
- The second half of the trip is what we're really unsure about...we're thinking the weather will be nicer in the Alps and Hokkaido, but Hokkaido especially seems like we'd need a car to explore further. It seems like with Sapporo being so far from Tokyo (where we need to fly home from), it makes sense to split up the trip back with a few days somewhere in Northern Honshu, but we're not sure what would be both convenient and worth a visit.
Any advice is much appreciated!!
So here's what we have actually planned:
Fukuoka - 3 nights
Nagasaki - 3 nights
Beppu - 2 nights
(Overnight ferry to Osaka, then train to Kyoto)
Kyoto - 5 nights
Kinosaki Onsen - 2 nights
Osaka - 3 nights
Hiroshima - 3 nights
Tokyo - 10 nights
And here's what we're considering for the rest of the trip:
Kanazawa - 4 nights
Takayama - 2 nights
Shin-Hotaka Onsen - 2 nights
Matsumoto - 2 nights
Nagano - 3 nights
Hakodate - 2 nights
Sapporo - 5 nights
Somewhere in Northern Honshu?? - 3 nights
Tokyo - 4 nights
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