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2016.05.12 17:27 chillaxin4life Milwaukee's Bicycle Community

Welcome to Milwaukee's bike subreddit! From the urban commuters to the beach cruisers, everyone and their bike is welcome here for newbie advice, pro events, and everything in between! Bike maps and bike shops are listed in the wiki.
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2023.06.05 09:32 Hot_Relationship295 We need Trainer-Lvl 60

Im sitting at lvl 50 for now likely a year. And honestly I wish they would add a lvl increase soon. The game is nearly fu**in' 7 years old. And if they handle the lvl system like the regular game how should we expect getting to lvl 10? In 30 years? I mean I would love to reach, even lvl 60 before the game dies. And honestly when they're done with integrating all pokemon to the game there are probably alot of people who quit. Maybe not forever but at least when a new generation comes out.
And for me the lvl up tasks help quite a but to keep me playing. Right now I just do a little GBL and play once a month the community day. That's it.
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2023.06.05 09:31 SwingBlade Issue with Dreadnought AI tracker

Hey folks!
So after getting in a massive shootout with sentinel forces, where I went from ~25 to ~80 interceptors downed, I finally figured out I had to take down the capital ship. Doing so got me the dreadnought piece to find my first interceptor ship. Yay!
Activating an anomaly got me an encounter with a Dyson Eye, which got me another capital ship, and another of the items to find a ship. I activated it, and it took me to the same planet as last time. And following the beacon took me... to the crash site of the last ship. Which was empty. I arrived there and the quest completed, with no gain/resolution.
Is it because I used the thing too near the first planet? Do I only get one interceptor? How do I prevent this in the future?
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2023.06.05 09:29 Working-Plankton-370 pain and swelling after hard bite

hello! Couple days ago I bit into some food that was harder than expected and tooth nr 5 started hurting afterwards. pain is dull and sometimes pulsates, was localized strictly in that tooth. when i take painkillers it only hurts if i bite on it, ive been more careful with it overall.
second day a bruise appeared like 1cm above the tooth and goes into the fornix(the gums immediately near teeth are normal) . my cheek is a bit swollen in that area but nothing obvious, you have to stare a bit to see it and skin has normal colour. some of the pain seems to have migrated into the bruised/swollen area but it doesnt pulsate like the tooth one. it goes away for like 7hours after 400 mg ibuprofen and wakes me up at night if the effect goes away while i sleep (my pain tolerance is kinda low to be fair)
now on day 3, bruising has started to go away, pain is the same, swelling was a bit worse when i woke up but i think i slept on it.
is it a bruised tooth? could the swelling be inflammed sinus? could it go away with just painkillers and eating carefully?
i was supposed to go to the dentist this month for a cavity filling anyway but idk if i should rush it to get this checked out.
background: i have a mouthguard i wear at night because i clench my jaws. my teeth are pretty tight together even after taking out all winsdom teeth + braces for a year to fix the positions, have been told my bite is alligned nicely. whole family has cavity issues, i got 1 root canal and 10 fillings so far(early 20s). no smoking, havent drunk in 2 years.
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2023.06.05 09:29 Ill_Marionberry_131 Yet another picture from the elementary school near me

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2023.06.05 09:29 Astra_Arc Faust The White Mist

I've been thinking about this idea the whole night. First fanfic I've ever written. Final ID for Faust during her chapter
Faust L.corp remnant, uptying tier EX, The White Mist
Uptying requirements: 500 threads, 300 Faust EGO shards, chapter 12-x to be completed, special item (guiding thread Faust perhaps)
Story: Despite the absurdly huge amount of individual you can encounter in the city, it's almost impossible to find someone you really need
Our research facility slowly grows, but we've encountered a seemingly unbreakable ceiling
To extract matter from human subconscious, a phenomenal task requiring the most exceptional individual
Who knew we encounter one of them in the backstreets of all places?
While giving one of my speeches to the city folks, we've been stopped by a grade 2 fixer
White hair, pale skin, a high quality silk that made her clothing and eyes staring into the void, as if thinking about something grand
She seems out of place in this dusty and gloomy area, as if she somehow escaped the incurable disease that have been plaguing the minds of everyone in the city for ages
My words has caught her attention and she proposed to join my side
Her unusual intellect and wit was already enough to give her a position as a executive of the wing
But she chose the life of fixer
Gathering intel, giving valuable advices and eliminating threats in the city
Getting to this high grade and progressing even further seems almost trivial to her
And yet she chose us
Perhaps she's already knew who we are?
My friends and colleagues protested inviting her in, pointing out high possibility of her being a spy, sent to destroy us from the inside
But i knew that wasn't the case
Carmen: "Faust, I have an amazing news for you!"
Faust: "Have Faust's instructions finally paid off?"
Carmen:"Exactly! Using the right dosage of Cogito we've managed to extract a special equipment"
It was a solid black scythe emitting eerie sound with each swing
It's painful to hear it, nevermind actually wield it, yet holding it produces a weird melody that only wielder can hear
A soothing yet sinister music, trying to break wielders mind
Carmen: "While this weapon might be crude and even weaker than a sword you have right now, it's certainly have a near infinite potential, given the right wielder"
Faust: "Faust's knowledge in music is not as great as you might think, however I guarantee that with enough time, Faust will be well acquainted with this power"
In the midst of battle, a cacophony of painful screams, broken bones and grinding metal is broken by indescribable melody
Each swing tore the air in the most beautiful yet terrifying way, stunning any combatants senseless
Child swiftly slash enemies trying to escape the dreaded song
Each of her steps, her breath and even blinks was in rhythm with the melody
After the battle a weapon starts talking to the child
Not a rare occurrence, but something that have been happening quite a lot since child grow familiar with a scythe
???: "Da capo! From break and ruin the most beautiful performance begins"
???: "You shall become the conductor for the most beautiful performance this world is yet to see"
???: "As the symphony would come to an end, a new one would emerge from the ruins"
???: "An endless cycle of immortal art"
Faus: "Faust respects your admiration for the art of music, yet I must decline your proposition"
Faust: "To live in an endless cycle, means endless stagnation"
Faust: "Inability to move forward and experience something new, a true hell for researcher like me"
Faust: "Thousands or millions of years in a loop would bring only pain and despair to everyone, a fate more horrible than anything the world can give"
In a bright light, followed by resonating humming, child unlocked something new
In the midst of battle, the area came to a complete silence
Child, wearing a set of complete EGO, cover the entire battlefield in the mist
No sound can be heard, combatants slowly losing their mind enable to see or hear
A coloured fixer swiftly slides from enemy to enemy until nothing remains
Only the music that no one can hear, but everyone can listen to stays
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2023.06.05 09:29 Jabre7 This whale is one of the worst fights i've had to suffer through in this game

Now, Poborubarumu conceptually is pretty unique and cool, even among the Frontier monsters i've fought. He's a walking whale that can play songs to buff himself and whatnot, almost like a living Hunting Horn. His buffs even affect whatever's around him, including the player and whatever CPU companions they have, which is pretty nice and adds some dynamic to the fight...which doesn't mean much because his fight is abysmal.
Constant tremors and shockwave attacks that send you flying for most of your health even with proper gear and health buffs, very frequent hard to dodge attacks from the front, making attacking the tail near exclusively the only viable option for a Blademaster that i know of unless you constantly block...the fight would just be another annoying but managable check off on the list if this was all. But the reason this post was made was his healing. His heal buff applies slow regen to your party...but also to himself. And "slow" for a monster with a large health pool like him means your DPS needs to both naturally be very high and you need to be at your A game to outpace it...
Even then he'll seemingly have undone a large chunk of your damage so far. I know because i fought him for almost 30 minutes, and i kill even high health monsters in HR5 in 20 minutes tops, and he didn't even limp. I spammed charge slashes at lv2 whenever i could, and i have Focus+2 and the Resolute Faith GS, one of the best in HR5 for it's raw, sharpness, element and paralysis being very high. I also carted to the most stupid situations, though that might be on me for using a slow weapon like Greatsword. I'll try again with SnS and see if i do better, but i still never want to fight this thing again after this. The fact this is a Key Quest too just rubs salt in the wound...anyway thanks for reading, if you have any tips please tell
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2023.06.05 09:28 kitchenwitchin How did you roll up Ace in Mutsuo's level?

I picked up Dipp after a couple of tries once I had most of the non-animal items and cousins rolled up. However Ace runs around the other side of the tree from me whenever I get near him. I tried running straight into the tree to see if some of the katamari could reach him from the other side, but no. I don't see anything else I can roll up to make the katamari big enough to grab the bigger animals or shrubs. Help!
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2023.06.05 09:28 NightmareLuna1996 Screaming kids

Anyone else notice this a lot? Nearly everyday especially when I'm out and about, there's always kids screaming, especially when they're playing, examples: 1: I was in my garden, there's a public grass patch right outside it, all of a sudden 2 girls show up, stand in front of each other and just scream out of nowhere into each other's faces. 2: I was swimming at an indoor pool and there was a little girl getting swimming lessons, every time she jumped into the water she would scream, thankfully her swim instructor told her to stop after nearly everyone was getting annoyed and leaving the pool. 3: I was at the mall and 2 kids were chasing each other and screaming. I have sensitive hearing so it really bothers me sometimes.
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2023.06.05 09:25 DSanchez35 First Car

First Car
Hi everyone, got my first car (2003 gls) back in march and it's treated me well ever since. Only modifications so far are the wheels, radio, some of the plastic coolant flanges, one of the door locks and the antenna. Looking forward to making it more my own in the near future.
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2023.06.05 09:23 Fuzzywigbutter AITA for trying to steal a business from a child?

Okay so i live out in a frontier town near the border of my country. Its a simple place with even simpler people. The village is rather poor and doesn't have many exports to bring in money. Other than some low quality crops are only real export are potions from an apothecary. The problem being is that apothecary is run by a 13yo child, who is quite gifted when it comes to potion making but he is far to young to in charge of such a vital part to the village economy.
My proof for this comes for this is when one of his employees came to my party to ask us help her deal with a rat infestation before it gets out of hand because the owner was to scared or embarrassed to do anything about it. The next day we ventured into cellar where we found out that not only are the apothecary's extra ingredients stored but also the villages entire winter rations supply. After a grueling battle in the damp, dark, and decrepit cellar fighting off giant rats we emerged victorious.
The next day i went to speak with the village leader to discuss the dangerous situation regarding the food storage, because it seemed obvious to me and the rest of the party that this child is far to naïve and immature to be responsible for something so vital to the villages survival.
The village leader mostly agreed with mine and my parties decision to put someone else in charge of running the business at least until he comes of age, but when the guard captain (whos been a real thorn in our side for awhile), started rallying the towns people against us by claiming we were trying to steal the business the he started away from him but that wasn't are intention. Now half the town is mad at us and its getting harder and harder for us to get people to see our side of things.
so reddit are we TA's?
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2023.06.05 09:23 Uberantwild Misery loves company narcissistic sister

For the past 20 years she's been abusing me and she's very nosey into my business. She hates the fact I do well and she wants others in the community to think I'm crazy or mental person. Just because she came to America she thinks she's high level and better than others. Anything I do she gets bothered by. A lady from our own people was interested in marriage with me and she got bothered by it and said "That woman is too old for you". But that girl was actually a few years younger than me.
The crazy sister even told me that her 3 other younger brothers are her brothers and myself and brother older than me aren't her brothers. She also told me some girls from our home country she met in Tennessee were laughing at me when she told them I screamed from the shower (because she heard me scream when cold water accidentally touched me when I thought it was warm I was using).
When I bought a house with my mom and even paid part down payment mom informed me the sister (her daughter) was telling her to not listen to me and that she bought a nice house. She's making me come across as the undesired/unwanted person to my mom even for a house I bought with mom.
Years ago I remember when her husband called me to ask me to come join them in Black Friday shopping in Best Buy and when I arrived I saw him pretending to be looking around stuff because he knew she would ask me to buy a computer for tbem since he wanted her to surf my pockets and them she comes up to me and says "Ozzy I'll pay you back in tax return time can you buy me that computer?". I was surprised he didn't just ask me to buy the $700 computer since I am uncle to his kids. I did anyways because I had surplus of cash but she never paid me back during that tax return time. She essentially swindled me or bait/switched me. I suspect she told him "We can easily milk that guy". I suspect he knows this woman doesn't like me or thinks differently of me. Funny they've been divorcing and their parents have been trying to get them back together. He currently pays rent and all and sometimes visits them but I don't think they're together. He drives truck most of the time. They've fought numerous times.
Most recently she was visiting our home country and she contacted me to ask me if I can Zelle her $4k because she was broke and her hubby wasn't sending her enough. He was only sending her rent and some extra money for food. She said she would repay me during tax return time and Informed her sorry I can't because you told me that before a few times and you never did. I later found out she got some big money some other way because she bought our half sister a new phone and she and her oldest son had the time of their life on resort beaches and all. Some other friend of hers sent ber something. She thought of me to be dome dumb person or someone she can keep taking advantage of.
While she was there visiting country she tried to talk with a relative of ours that I filed process to bring to America. Relatives mom is here in America too. The lady didn't do anything wrong to her and never ever met her but the crazy Narcissist sister was telling me they're just using me for papers and not to bring her here etc etc. It really doesn't concern her. She tried calling her but the lady ignored her calls because I already told the lady in advance about the fact crazy sister was not happy with me bringing her to America. Crazy sister even told me that the waiting times are 7 years and that she instead should go boat to Europe or jump through US Mexico border. I informed the relative of all this stuff she said and she was surprised because she never met her.
In conclusion I finally informed the sister that it isn't those people that are her problem, it's me because she's always being bothered by everything about me. It would take more pages to tell you guys all the other stuff she did to me in past near 20 years. I'm out of your life because you're always hostile towards me and bothered by everything I do. If it was her other brother doing stuff like bringing a relative to America via a relative petition, she would not be saying anything bad about the relative of mine or anything else he does. This sister just hates me from the inside and thinks I'm embarrassing her and our family when I actually am not.
I told her I'm blocking you for good. As your kids get older if they miss me and wanna see me again, you can arrange with mom and her house for me to meet them.
I made it clear I believe she's a narcissist and will never leave me alone as long as I am in her life. Just because she's conscious and she was brought to America via plane back when she was 18 makes her think she's very high up there and haughty. When she was visiting our developing home country recently, I was informed she was bossing around aunties and people and mentioning she's from America and has wealth but the luxury home she was in was being rented with her truck driver husbands money and she doesn't have any money of her own. She's broke. Those people in that developing country often have more money and luxury cars so it surprises me why her narcissist self would think she's higher than them.
It's been a month since I've been out of her life but I informed her our relative lady is gonna come to America via plane flight and fyi she has a nice job there where she currently is and you're not higher than her.
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2023.06.05 09:23 OkFisherman3579 21 [M4F] Starbucks Date

Hey, so me and 2 of my close friends are going out tomorrow, just wanna have someone na makasama since both of them are taken na din eh baka mamaya maging wheel nanaman ako lols, so if ever na near ka sa vicinity ng Starbucks Monumento, the one in front of MCU, please do so hmu hehe, can be sfw/nsfw depende sa trip mo basta either are good for me heh.


Abt me:
-5'10
-athlethic body
-wears glasses at night cause I can't see when its night time na
-witty and funny
-most of the time grumpy face, but has a killer smile
-a solid 9.5/10 (depends if the day is good or nah)
-can host or not depende sayo
-has a car pero won't bring mine since starbucks is near me lang

Abt you:
nothing just be urself hehe


P.S. kkb lang po ito ha, since tight budget tayo and wala naman pilitan here heh but if ur a good girl sure treat kita kahit pastry pa...

P.P.S and if ur far I can pay for ur angkas naman.
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2023.06.05 09:23 OkFisherman3579 21 [M4F] Starbucks Date

Hey, so me and 2 of my close friends are going out tomorrow, just wanna have someone na makasama since both of them are taken na din eh baka mamaya maging wheel nanaman ako lols, so if ever na near ka sa vicinity ng Starbucks Monumento, the one in front of MCU, please do so hmu hehe, can be depende sa trip mo basta either are good for me heh.
Abt me:
-5'10
-athlethic body
-wears glasses at night cause I can't see when its night time na
-witty and funny
-most of the time grumpy face, but has a killer smile
-a solid 9.5/10 (depends if the day is good or nah)
-can host or not depende sayo
-has a car pero won't bring mine since starbucks is near me lang
Abt you:
nothing just be urself hehe
P.S. kkb lang po ito ha, since tight budget tayo and wala naman pilitan here heh but if ur a good girl sure treat kita kahit pastry pa...
P.P.S and if ur far I can pay for ur angkas naman.
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2023.06.05 09:21 Puzzled-Barnacle-200 Second guppy dead in 4 days

As per the title. Really looking for help and advice so that I don't lose any other fish. TLDR at the end.
My one guppy was off colour for several weeks. Basically a pastel colour of how he used to be. He was also the last in the tank (6 guppies, 10 platies) to wake up/respond when the lights came on or I walked near the tank. I wasn't surprised to see him on Wednesday at the bottom of the tank breathing heavily, then on Thursday he died.
This morning was much more of a shock. One of my guppies was pulled against the filter intake. There was some movement of his funs, so I turned the filter off to give him some peace whilst I tested the water. 10 minutes later he was definitely dead, so the motion may have been caused by water flow.
My water parameters are 0ppm ammonia, 0ppm nitrite and 10-20ppm nitrate, so nothing seems amiss there. I did do a water change on Wednesday which made me wonder if I forgot the water conditioner, so I have just added an extra dose to be safe, though I doubt it would have made one fish on the brink of death 1-2 hours later, one die 5 days later, and the others look fine. My guppies were bought at the end of October (7.5 months ago) amd I don't think they have grown since then.
TLDR: Two guppies dead, one of which seemed perfectly healthy the night before. Water tested fine. Last water change was on Wednesday. Guppies were bought 7.5 months ago.
Have I just gotten unlucky with coincidental deaths, or is something else going on?
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2023.06.05 09:21 ThrowRa-blin My gf has reckless behavior and I think I want to leave her

I posted this in another community as well. Desperate for outsider input. I26m have only been with my gf21 for a few months. Stuff started smooth and normal, now I would say I’m in love with her, even tho she’s horrible for me. We were originally just suppose to hook up, I don’t tend to date girls that much younger then me, I like mature woman, but I guess I liked how rebellious and fun she was. We’d go out partying and she’d bring out a crazy side in me. I got into a huge bar fight the first few weeks we got together, provoked by her. The sex is great and exciting, she was exciting, she just honestly was so crazy, it was incredibly hot. She brought fun to my incredibly boring life, it felt like I was living in a movie. Now She’s just making me spiral bad. She almost convinced me to quit my great paying job, to travel with her, I tried my first party drugs with her, under her convincing.
Those things should’ve all been red flags for me to start, but I guess I was blinded. Recently her personalities changed. We were drinking, and she started kissing her bestfriend, she practically begged me to have a 3some, and then they basically just hooked up, and I barely was involved. We got into a big argument and she just started hitting me, then shoved me down and had sex with me, while hitting me still, which was very hot but afterwards I felt very disrespected. We were driving and got into an argument and she began to speed, and she threatened to crash the car, accidentally lost control and we almost crashed. It’ll be a work night for me, and I’ll be dead asleep, she has a spare key, and will come into my house in the middle of the night completely trashed, raiding my fridge or waking me up and trying to get me to call out of work the next day. I let her pick out and order some Victoria secrets using my card, and she bought 6 sets, in her defense I didn’t give her a limit, but in my defense if you know the price of Victoria secrets then you understand. She’s very impulsive and comes up with crazy and new ideas for things to do everyday, even if I’m exhausted. She always wants to party, and there’s no space for responsibility for her. She hops around waitressing jobs bc she can’t keep a stable one, bc she just quits when she doesn’t feel like coming in, or gets fired for not showing.
I feel selfish in a way, bc I feel like I just wanted my moment to feel alive, and now I’m realizing this isn’t what I want in a relationship. I don’t want a fun crazy girl, I want someone who I can make a wife, and a mother, in some point in the near future. I feel like I need structure, and something stable, and I won’t have that with her. I really feel love for her, and don’t know what to do. I just feel like she is emotionally draining me, and is sort of a set back. But I also don’t want to lose her, but She isn’t ready to grow up. Advice?
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2023.06.05 09:20 Standard_Fox7511 24F [F4A] Regrets and Etiquette Of Meeting Up Alone Or In Groups

Around two weeks ago, I made a post about organizing a group meetup with the intention of purchasing a specific food "Giant Kikiam." Unfortunately, this gathering turned out to be a terrible experience for me, especially since it was my first time meeting people in a group setting like this.
After posting the invitation, I received messages from six people, and we all planned to meet in the city (except for one person who got lost in traffic and gave up). We greeted each other and introduced ourselves. However, during our first walk to the grocery store, one person abruptly left, muttering something under their breath (possibly unrelated to our group). As a result, I was left with three other individuals, and that's when they got too comfrotable.
Now, let me clarify that I'm not usually a sensitive person, and I entered this meetup with a safe-for-work mindset. Initially, our conversations revolved around small talk, such as our relationship statuses and professions (of which I chose not to disclose much). However, the discussions took a deeper turn when they began sharing their dating experiences, even delving into explicit details. This didn't bother me initially; I simply observed and stayed silent. But when we arrived at the third store, one person started becoming overly familiar (which I did not appreciate, as I prefer not to be touched without consent). At this point, the rest of the group suddenly shifted into what felt like a bullying mode towards me.
They began commenting on my choice of clothing, mentioning how flowing my attire was, and inquiring about my expensive-smelling perfume, suggesting that I give off an impression of being affluent. They scrutinized everything, from my phone to the jewelry I was wearing, remarking that it was excessive. One person even placed their shoes near my feet, bragging about their expensive footwear and stating their intention to switch to the same phone brand as mine. Throughout this ordeal, I remained silent, attempting to maintain composure as the meetup leader, all the while fixated for the food we set out to find.
Eventually, we found the kikiam at the fifth grocery store. Since the others had traveled from different locations outside BGC, I offered to drive them to Mandaluyong, where they could easily access buses. One person was heading back to Cavite to visit family, and I could relate to their situation. But in response, someone exclaimed, "Of course she has a car too." Despite feeling overwhelmed by the constant scrutiny of certain aspects of myself and their laughter, I kept my word and drove them to Mandaluyong and left.
Not even an hour pass and i get solicit for a date cause the chemistry is there.....
During this meetup, I felt bullied and belittled. I hope you all understand that, as you know yourselves, I have chosen to delete my Telegram account and block you on Reddit. Creating new accounts to contact me here will not be effective. Please refrain from inviting me to night outs or any future meetups, as I am not interested in any of you.
We parted ways with me being a good sport and blocking you all and deleting telegram after your last messages for afterwards activities should had been a clear sign i am not into you, it nor enjoyed you companies.
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2023.06.05 09:20 ThrowRa-blin My(26m) gf(21f) has reckless behavior and I think I need to leave her.

I26m have only been with my gf21 for a few months. Stuff started smooth and normal, now I would say I’m in love with her, even tho she’s horrible for me. We were originally just suppose to hook up, I don’t tend to date girls that much younger then me, I like mature woman, but I guess I liked how rebellious and fun she was. We’d go out partying and she’d bring out a crazy side in me. I got into a huge bar fight the first few weeks we got together, provoked by her. The sex is great and exciting, she was exciting, she just honestly was so crazy, it was incredibly hot. She brought fun to my incredibly boring life, it felt like I was living in a movie. Now She’s just making me spiral bad. She almost convinced me to quit my great paying job, to travel with her, I tried my first party drugs with her, under her convincing.
Those things should’ve all been red flags for me to start, but I guess I was blinded. Recently her personalities changed. We were drinking, and she started kissing her bestfriend, she practically begged me to have a 3some, and then they basically just hooked up, and I barely was involved. We got into a big argument and she just started hitting me, then shoved me down and had sex with me, while hitting me still, which was very hot but afterwards I felt very disrespected. We were driving and got into an argument and she began to speed, and she threatened to crash the car, accidentally lost control and we almost crashed. It’ll be a work night for me, and I’ll be dead asleep, she has a spare key, and will come into my house in the middle of the night completely trashed, raiding my fridge or waking me up and trying to get me to call out of work the next day. I let her pick out and order some Victoria secrets using my card, and she bought 6 sets, in her defense I didn’t give her a limit, but in my defense if you know the price of Victoria secrets then you understand. She’s very impulsive and comes up with crazy and new ideas for things to do everyday, even if I’m exhausted. She always wants to party, and there’s no space for responsibility for her. She hops around waitressing jobs bc she can’t keep a stable one, bc she just quits when she doesn’t feel like coming in, or gets fired for not showing.
I feel selfish in a way, bc I feel like I just wanted my moment to feel alive, and now I’m realizing this isn’t what I want in a relationship. I don’t want a fun crazy girl, I want someone who I can make a wife, and a mother, in some point in the near future. I feel like I need structure, and something stable, and I won’t have that with her. I really feel love for her, and don’t know what to do. I just feel like she is emotionally draining me, and is sort of a set back. Advice?
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